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rawnee ([personal profile] rawnee) wrote2009-06-28 03:30 pm

OK, so now I'm really pissed off!

Bit of back story.  I left my ex and moved out of the house.  (It wasn't ours, it belonged to his parents so I had no claim on it).  I couldn't take my children with me as I was moving into student housing and it wasn't fair on them and I didn't want the children to choose between their father and I as it wasn't fair on them.

So, move on 11 years, ex now has a new gf who has a daughter.  They moved into his house after 6 months and new gf has completely taken over.  Anyhow, things have been going on since they moved in that aren't endearing gf to my two kids' hearts but this weekend has topped it all.  He was supposed to take Robbie out this weekend.  (Robbie's been staying here since his exams started and he hasn't had to be in school every day).  By mutual agreement, they cancelled.  I thought that maybe his dad would take him out last night instead, but no.  He's gone to Spain for a week with gf and her daughter.  No 'phone call to Robbie to let him know, no text, nothing.  So, Gemma rings me, her father didn't even shout up the stairs to her this morning that he was going, just sent her a text from the airport to say that he couldn't get her case to lock.  (She's going to Bulgaria with her bf tomorrow for a week).

Call me over protective, but is someone neglecting his own children for the sake of his new gf and her child?

[identity profile] pookledo.livejournal.com 2009-06-28 04:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmm... That doesn't sound very good behaviour by her father.

[identity profile] rawnee.livejournal.com 2009-06-28 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Just makes me so mad when he completely ignores them. Oh well, it's going to get worse before it gets better!

[identity profile] labels-are4tins.livejournal.com 2009-06-28 05:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Shocking. I hope your kids let him know exactly how they are feeling about it. And hopefully he can make it up to them in some way!
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